Many of us have said throughout our lives “I can’t do that.” Many of us have said this about things we really, really want to do. “Wow that man/woman is really cute, I wish I could talk to him/her.” “Why don’t you go up and start a conversation?” “Are you crazy? No, I can’t do

t is a very uneasy feeling not to have control. When something matters to us and it is beyond our control, it often induces worry and anxiety. But what did 105 year-old Edyth Kirchmeir say on the Ellen Show about the secret to sustaining her life? “I think positive… If something happens- I can’t do